• NannerBanner@literature.cafe
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    3 days ago

    Eh. I think, like the statement about men preferring certain things, that it’s a stated preference more than an actual one. I have a friend with a slightly larger penis, about 7", and his wife has told me it’s too big. And that’s just seven inches. Apparently certain positions are too much and slightly painful.

    The size queens you see in porn are the standouts, just like the men that all have 8"+ penises.

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        2 days ago

        I’m well aware of the science and actual numbers of penises. I’m ALSO aware of how it is portrayed in porn. Just look at the local nsfw instance, and try and tell me that the majority of the posted penises aren’t well above average.

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          2 days ago

          Of course porn selects for enormous dicks. That’s exactly why it shouldn’t be used as a rubric for the general population. You didn’t even mention porn until your second paragraph, so it very much sounded like you thought the average penis size was just below 7 inches. But I’m glad to hear you know better.

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      2 days ago

      Yeah, I’m just under 8, and my wife and I can’t have sex two days in a row because it’ll hurt her. And BJs just aren’t a thing. But yeah, certain positions just dont work without me being very careful about how deep I go.

      Tell your friend to look into Ohnut. It’s like a cock ring, but just prevents him from going too deep. You can interlock rings to customize the depth.

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      3 days ago

      Well, its a male fantasy (exclusively) you may ask any woman. But… I mean… Don’t do that xD

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          2 days ago

          Humorously enough, the friend I mentioned… his brother’s wife has that kink. Every time we get together, I have this odd and humorous thought that the two of them should have met their husbands in the opposite.

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            2 days ago

            I experienced a similar situation in college. I pledged the weird small frat on campus that just smoked hookah and played video games, and the president had a legit footlong. He had trouble getting laid because women would see it and nope out.

            But I had a friend who was a masochist, so eventually they started dating (there were rumors about his size from being pantsed at a party, but she confirmed it). She loved barely being able to walk the next day