• slevinkelevra@sh.itjust.works
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      Humor is sometimes the only remaining coping mechanism. Reminds me of a post I saw a few days ago of someone saying they won therapy when the therapist needed a pause to take in their horrific story of a life.

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    I love how this comment section goes from the top comments at over 200 upvotes to -50 downvotes in less than 10 comments (at the time of writing this). And then looking at the scrollbar not even being halfway down the page, which is a weird reaction of “man, so many idiots here, but also nice seeing them all getting downvoted into oblivion”.

    This is dark but funny, while it also sadly shows how many people here are brainwashed fucktards.

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    Lemmy surprised me with this comment section. I would not have guessed the amount of religious chestnuts is so high on here

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      It’s not that there’s a lot, it’s that the topic makes the few here open their mouth. Your the top comment right now. The post is upvoted. The community isn’t them.

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      Abortions are apart of it sexually for me though. That and the ritualistic satanic blood sacrifice afterwards.

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      It sounds like you don’t really believe “your body your choice” if you’re telling them what to do.

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        Eventually, you’re making a new body (completely avoidable situation too!) that you’re disposing off like the result of a greasy kebab. If you don’t think this is heartless and irresponsible at the very least, then what do you think is?

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          An embryo isn’t a body any more than the yolk in a egg is a chicken. It’s called an abortion cause you are aborting the process of that embryo turning into a baby, and if you wanna label that as murder, then I guess I support murder. Sanctimonious assholes like you wouldn’t lift a finger to help these unwanted kids after they are born, they are better of never living in this shit hole cruel world

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          A kebob is made from a grown creature with more capacity for suffering than a recently conceived fetus. So if you’re willing to waste a kebab, I don’t see the problem with a voluntary abortion.

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          I kill probably thousands of insects per day. An animal dies for roughly half of the meals I eat. The pollution from my car contributes to massive population decline among all animals near me, and slowly worsens the environment across the world. Every time I perform a single Google search, the AI engine wastes a non-neglibile amount of power that was more-than-likely generated via dirty means. Virtually every product I buy contributes to the plastic pollution in our oceans and our bodies.

          Almost all of those situations are also avoidable. Are you also raging against these people for choosing actions that support the destruction of billions of billions of small animals and insects?

          I’m not going to be convinced to be against removing a parasite from my body. That’s insane.

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            Rationalise it however you want. But you know you can’t equate these things, and as long as you’re not completely lost this will always be a thorn on your side. The mature human accepts the moral dimension of abortion, and whatever decisions and judgements they make/have made have to be seen through this lens as well (and not just amorally self-serving ‘practicality’).

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              The mature human accepts the moral dimension of abortion

              Lol, no, sorry, get the fuck out of here with your moral absolutionist bullshit.

              Removing an unthinking, unfeeling bundle of cells from my body so that it doesn’t destroy me is 100% morally and ethically fine - there is literally no issue whatsoever. It is actually no different than a man ejaculating into a sock - it is a potential life that is not yet real, and does not hold ownership of my body.

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              There’s no more meaning to our life than a bacterias, we are only special to ourselves, a higher life form could consider us as nothing but bacteria from their perspective.

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                Philosophical, existential, meaning-searching “bacteria” is not the same as actual bacteria, right? Lol. But +1 for being civil!

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                  How do you know bacteria isn’t searching for meaning, the problem with human centered thinking is that we can only define consciousness in terms of our own, cause that’s all we know and understand, doesn’t mean ours is the only way.

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        You know why I specifically mention condoms? Because it’s usually worn by men; if a guy doesn’t respect himself enough to wear one, unprompted, he’s not worth it.

        Safe sex and all that.

        My body, my choice actually applies to both parties in a sexual encounter.

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    That’s a wild way to say you are sorely lacking in impulse control and/or sexual education.

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      Yes, that is exactly the kind of person we must force parenthood onto! Thank you for trying to make society better. God bless.

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        I don’t want this person to have kids and I don’t want this person to keep on flushing down potential kids either! We just have to wait this heartless lady out (if she’s actually casually aborting) and then she can have a chat with God about it.

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          This reads as if you think her getting pregnant takes a baby from someone else.

          Also, it reads more like she wants kids and she’s having miscarriages. But, it’s unsurprising you’d think abortions right off the bat. And that’s exactly (only one of the reasons) why abortions should be legal. People like you will just assume a woman aborted and send her to prison for miscarrying.

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            Well, you could only be critical of it if she’s talking about abortions casually, else she’s just trying to cope with loss. And there’s nothing to say about it in the second case, I evidently commiserate like any other human worth the label. And what prison are you talking about? I’m not American, I don’t play by your nonsense, oppressive rules backed by amorality and a refusal to think, lol. You’re fighting a ghost here, not me. I already said she’ll talk about it with the One, I’d just avoid her like I avoid any other casually immoral person…

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      Or she was trying to get pregnant but miscarrying, which happens a whole damn lot and it’s heartbreaking.

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      excuse you, but by making use of abortions she’s proving the exact opposite, that she does have sex ed. otherwise she’d be too terrified of god smiting her for not being “pro-life”

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    But hey, she’s vegan! No killing animals, but babies are fair game!

    I’m pro-choice but if you do it recreationally you’re a shit person in my book.

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      Recreational abortions dont exist. There may be people with multiple abortions, but its not a situation women put themselves in. It’s not a fun day no matter the procedure.

      Consider mental health, rape, stupidity, not everyone is you with your thought process. You may actually be above average intelligence, and if you are consider how scary that is. How many people don’t have the cause and effect reasoning you do. We can’t judge people with abortions if we can’t judge people with credit card debt.

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        There may be people with multiple abortions, but its not a situation women put themselves in.

        Some people just don’t bother with protection. I personally know someone who is like that. It’s baffling

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            Three that I know of. After that she’s just had kids with basically random men. I guess that’s one solution.

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              How is having kids with random men a better solution compared to an abortion.

              Y’all are unhinged

              When you clip your toenails do you cry too? Or do you just realize it for what it is, shedding dead cells.

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      “Recreational abortions” is just forced birther propaganda, and it amazes me how many are gullible enough to think that people would go through such a traumatic and “shameful” experience (because of people who say ignorant shit like this) for recreational purposes.

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        It’s the same shit they said about gay people, and it’s the same shit they say now about transgender people. It’s always the same shit.

        You have to be so goddamn blind to the whole situation to think “oh, yeah, those people me and all my friends shit on and harass? Those people chose to become hated, vilified, and criminalized by their peers and authority figures. Just because. For fun. Just a little recreational trauma. As a treat.”

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      early pregnancies are tiny dots of flesh, smaller than getting a mole removed or picking your nose. There’s no need to romanticise disposing of it, it’s barely beyond the stage of discarding a used condom.

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          Not op, but it’s likely because recreational abortions are as much a thing as recreational brick eating or something. Yet you’re implying they are a thing, for some reason.

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            I prefer root canals as a comparison.

            Some people don’t brush their teeth well or often, or eat a bunch of sweets, and need root canals. It may be that they could have taken action to prevent it by exercising good oral hygeine, but they aren’t out there getting root canals for fun.

            And then some people have a genetic predisposition to cavities and tooth decay, and even with good oral hygiene they still might end up requiring a root canal. And some people end up having an injury that results in a root canal, completely outside of their control.

            But nobody is out there getting “recreational” root canals. The idea is stupid. And absolutely nobody is trying to restrict access to root canals because some people don’t brush well, or gasp had more than one root canal. Because root canals, though not the preferred choice, are a necessary part of dental care.