It would probably be mail.x[.]com

https://lemmy.browntown.dev/post/1440768

Not sure if you getting mentioned in the post gives you a notification, but just wanted to drop the link here! Hope it helps, I tried to make the walkthrough pretty basic while still keeping it high level where it matters (like I assume anyone attempting this is familiar enough with selfhosting that they can install a docker container without me walking through the entire process)

• Tailscale for remote access
• Portainer for GUI docker management
• NGINX Proxy Manager running behind tailscale for accessing your services easier (can go into greater detail on this)
• SSH for anything else

IMO, trying to avoid CLI in server administration is doing yourself a long term disservice. Its not that challenging and you’ll learn a lot more about how everything works. Plus, you’re pretty much not going to be able to avoid the terminal forever.