Macs also make you put your password in all the time for updates, installs, etc. Laymen seem to use macs just fine
I personally haven’t used it yet but I believe you can do all this with Matrix (choose your client - probably Element).
The japanese philosophy of Kintsugi may help you look at things differently. Impurities are what make us all unique. Nothing in nature is perfect.
https://www.bbc.com/travel/article/20210107-kintsugi-japans-ancient-art-of-embracing-imperfection
This hasn’t happened to me but probably because my computer doesn’t support Windows 11 (it doesn’t support TPM)