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  • Conclusion: kids are the cause of 60% of divorces.

    They might not be the original cause but often they are part of the process. Some people seem to think that a child will fix their already strained relationship. The problem is that while children make it harder to split up, they usually don’t fix the underlying reason why the relationship didn’t work in the first place. In the end, they get a divorce anyway only now there is a small human who has to suffer from it.

    Congratulations to the few where a child did fix a relationship but for everyone else, maybe sort out your problems before you add another innocent bystander into the mix.

















  • dfyx@lemmy.helios42.detoFediverse@lemmy.worldFediverse Growth?
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    30 days ago

    There is a middle ground between pulling up the ladder and trying to get everyone in the world on board.

    Everyone who is genuinely interested is more than welcome but the fediverse is currently not equipped to handle hundreds of thousands or even millions of new users. Let the general public find their own niche and concentrate on the ones who find us on their own or through friends.