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  • It isn’t a magic solution, no, but you have a lot more control than crummy layer 3 firewall rules and endless lists.

    The big players have far more data about what bad looks like. Either we can play whack a mole with outdated tools and techniques or get smart and learn to use what is available.

    Self hosting doesn’t mean we go backward in terms of the sophistication and difficulty, it means embracing modern solutions.

    In the dinosaur days, we had primitive tools, but so did the attackers. We cannot hope to self host with any measure of security if we bring piss to a shitfight.





  • Get a WAF. Sophos firewall is free if you want to diy. If not, use cloudflare.

    Opening ports, logging, monitoring, nailing up allow listed IP addresses and dicking around with fail2ban is such a timesuck. None of that crap will stop something from exploiting a vulnerability.

    Some things are worth farming out to a 3rd party. Plus, you can just point your DNS entry over and be mostly done. No more dynamic IP bs.








  • Seriously, I was em dashing on a goddamn typewriter, the fuck am I gonna change it now.

    In the end, it won’t matter. Being able to write well will be like riding a horse, calligraphy or tuning a carburetor. They will all become hobbies, a quirky past time of rich people or niche enthusiasts with limited real-world use.

    Maybe it is for the best. Most people can’t write for shit (does not help that we often use our goddamn thumbs to do most of it) and we spend countless hours in school trying to get kids to learn.

    Science fiction has us just projecting our thoughts to other without the clumsiness of language as the medium. Maybe this is just the first step.



  • Just because they stock them doesn’t mean everyone has to buy them.

    Also, which is it? You have to pay more for neat colors or non-colors have a higher resale? Can’t be both.

    I can say that when I bought my car (used) it was about $2000 more than equivalent cars because it is bright green. All the bland colors were always cheaper.

    I’m willing to believe that dealers charge more for colors, but its clear that they carry more value. You dont need 20 people to buy a used car, just one.

    I did a search on cargurus for Subaru crosstreks and corvettes. Blue for each, white for each. There are always fewer blue in both cases and they are in all but a few cases, more expensive.



  • All gray is bad.

    Enough with black, white and gray. If I see another b/w/g Tesla model Y I’m going to puke on it just so it has some color.

    Quit being a pussy and get a purple car, a green car, orange, whatever.

    Y’all gonna die one day and nobody will be on their death bed saying “wow, I am so happy that I avoided color my whole life, I win”.





  • Dear brother/sister rest your mind. You cannot control what will happen and worry/fear will only agitate you.

    I don’t like the idea of life being over, but it is inevitable. Seek acceptance and peace with this so you do not waste your precious hours with unnecessary discomfort. There is so much more to enjoy while we are still here!

    Loss of life is followed by mourning - except when it is our own. Some spend decades mourning the end of their lives because they are scared of facing it down. You’ve done the big scary part already. Now spend the time taking yourself through all of your fears. Once you come to acceptance it doesn’t change what will be, but it will trouble you a lot less.