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Playroom by Brøderbund

Still unfound, some game with a joust and a dungeon to explore, on Mac in the early 90s Edit: king Arthur’s magic castle

For books, a medieval themed book like where’s Waldo? But I don’t think it was a where’s Waldo book. I forget what you were looking for…, a spy?

Speak friend, and enter

That was the bridge to Tarabithia 😢

Now you can wait for the third hollow knight game, Life Ender

You’re something of a kernel linguist

From “so long and thanks for all the fish” to “enjoy being space red-lined, fuckos”

The furby’s third instar

Haven’t tried it out. I installed Jellyfin and have really liked it, don’t see the reason to try something else yet

My wife really likes her kobo aura (edition 2?). She was and is using it with overdrive and a library card. During Covid we had applied for cards from multiple counties to have more holds. Switching from card to card was annoying. I have recently started collecting an ebook library, starting with her overdrive wishlist. I use calibre to load the books, and that’s been great

I bought her a Kobo Clara BW for this Christmas, and I plan on adding our library to it and setting up the library cards before I wrap it

My wife survived. She went away to college as far away as she could (where we met). Currently we are estranged from all of her family except her oldest brother, who is also estranged from the others (though he himself is in contact, but very low contact and grey rocking). She gave them a lot longer to try to change post college than they deserved, but they won’t, and you can’t make them. We tried having a relationship with her aunt, but she ended up being a flying monkey, nothing egregious against up, but something super egregious against the oldest brothers family.

I’m really proud of my wife and her oldest brother, they’re cycle breakers. Therapy is immensely helpful for processing trauma and for developing skills to handle it and the time after. It bears to keep in mind that the skills that help you survive , aren’t the same that help you thrive. When you escape the situation you will need to shed some of those defenses to allow yourself to grow. Closing yourself off will help you navigate life under a narcissist’s roof, but will make it more difficult to build relationships with others.

Trying to build up a support system outside of the narcissists would be helpful if you can. My wife did the work herself, but was aided by having me as a solid support for her to work off of (and me with her for my own mental health struggles (adhd))

I’d also say it was a long road, through our 20s we stayed in contact with them, and that was fairly rough. They’d just keep up the same behaviors and try to pull us back in. We finally cut them off in our early 30s, and the growth and healing has really accelerated since then. We are much happier now, and not having to waste energy on them allows us to devote energy to other issues/things. My wife’s career has taken off since, she’s gotten a cpap (if you have sleep apnea you NEED one of these), and my wife went from not wanting children because of the trauma of childhood, to us now having two amazing daughters

On the college side look into any grants or scholarships you can get for academic success or disability. My wife got virtually no assistance from her family (hell they told her they’d get her books and then after graduating said oh by the way here’s your debt from that)

Sorry if this was pretty disjointed, adhd and I was semi watching a toddler. Also look into getting an America the beautiful pass for disability. It is for life, is free (shipping cost if you order online or in mail), and gives access to all national parks, forests, and blm land. No paperwork was needed when I got mine, just read a statement and sign that it applies to you

You can do this!

What I didn’t expect was the nostalgia hit I get now for all of the hip hop and r&b the frats were playing in college

lol

At least when I worked retail it was at chocolate world, so just candy related songs (or Xmas), and then macys, so poppier than I’d normally listen to (and again, Xmas)

3 of the 4 horsemen of white mediocrity

2 double Negronis is why

I guess it was spotted after all, liars

Love me some Jellyfin. I was yesterday days old when I finally read some documentation and learned that my metadata issues were because I was using a mixed library type for kids shoes and movies, and that they strongly discourage it because of the unreliable metadata it causes. Split kids movies and shows apart and now that works flawlessly, still, I feel like I’d prefer they could be combined on a single library for a kids’ browsing

Cancer

That’s no mere zombie, that’s Settra the Imperishable Opener of the Way Wielder of the Divine Flame Punisher of Nomads The Great Unifier Commander of the Golden Legion Sacred of Appearance Bringer of Light Father of Hawks Builder of Cities Protector of the Two Worlds Keeper of the Hours Chosen of Ptra High Steward of the Horizon Sailor of the Great Vitae Sentinel of the Two Realms The Undisputed Begetter of the Begat Scourge of the Faithless Carrion-feeder First of the Charnel Valley Rider of the Sacred Chariot Vanquisher of Vermin Champion of the Death Arena Emperor Of The Shifting Sands He Who Holds The Sceptre Great Hawk of the Heavens Arch-sultan of Atalan Waker of the Hierotitan Monarch of the Sky Majestic Emperor of the Shifting Sands Champion of the Desert Gods Breaker of the Ogre Clans Builder of the Great Pyramid Terror of the Living Master of the Never-Ending Horizon Master of the Necropolises Taker of Souls Tyrant to the Foolish Bearer of Ptra’s Holy Blade Scion of Usirian Scion of Nehek Settra the Great Chaser of Nightmares Keeper of the Royal Heart Founder of the Mortuary Cult Banisher of the Grand Hierophant High Lord Admiral of the Deathfleets Guardian of the Charnal Pass Tamer of the Liche King Unliving Jackal Lord Dismisser of the Warrior Queen Charioteer of the Gods He Who Does Not Serve Slayer of Redditras [Note ] Scarab Purger Favoured of Usirian Player of the Great Game Liberator of Life Lord Sand Wrangler of Scorpions Emperor of the Dunes Eternal Sovereign of the Khemri’s Legions Seneschal of the Great Sandy Desert Curserer of the Living Regent of the Eastern Mountains Warden of the Eternal Necropolis Herald of All Heralds Caller of the Bitter Wind God-Tamer Master of the Mortis River Guardian of the Dead Great Keeper of the Obelisks Deacon of the Ash River Belated of Wakers General of the Mighty Frame Summoner of Sandstorms Master of All Necrotects Prince of Dust Tyrant of Araby Purger of the Greenskin Breathers Killer of the False Gods’ Champions Tyrant of the Gold Dunes Golden Bone Lord Avenger of the Dead Carrion Master Eternal Warden of Nehek’s Lands Breaker of Djaf’s Bonds and many more…

Guess I get why he hates Hillary so much, his green eyed mushroom

DUNE. DUNE HAST. DUNE HAST MICH.