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Cake day: June 25th, 2023

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  • And at the same time, social anxiety has been steadily increasing among young people due to decreased human connection, driven by smartphone use. Tell a random 20 year old to go to their local park and strike up a conversation with a stranger for no reason except that they are at the same park, and they’ll look at you like you just told them to assassinate the prime minister of Czechoslovakia - not only are they sure it is a bad idea, but they are pretty sure it is impossible, since Czechoslovakia hasnt been a country for quite some time now.

    So these factors combine. They believe that even approaching a woman already makes them a bad person. Then layer on top social anxiety that makes talking to strangers already horrifying. And the brain comes up with a scenario that justifies the fear: You are a bad person if you approach a woman - you’re a bad person just for thinking about it - so if you actually did such a fucked up thing, it would definitely get recorded and posted online. Everyone would know what a fucked up person you are, you’d probably get MeToo’d, and sent to jail for sexual assault. Better never talk to anyone, just to be safe.

    Damn that was a bit too close to home for comfort. However I’m closer to 40’s than 20’s xD

    I see myself as a shy introvert and I’d rather avoid social interactions if I can, as I feel I’m bothering the other person(s). So approaching a woman randomly… Yeah the second quoted paragraphe summarise how the experience would feel.

    That’s why I liked dating apps years ago, before it (apparently) went to shit (I stopped now that I have a partner): clear background and expectations, minimised misunderstanding.
















  • Ahah yeah “sequel” has the same meaning in French ;)

    Love the double sense here, I’ll re-use it thanks!

    Yeah EA is clearly to blame but in the end the fault also lies on Disney. They are the one managing the license. After butchering the license, at least they had the common sense to realise what they did and not insist too much on it…

    The still backed themselves in a corner though. Or rather, “capped” the star wars timeline unless they retcon the movies.






  • I was extremely active on it until lightfall.

    The way they added story “filler”, the nonsensical scenario, the fomo/mandatory grind as well as the “you have to pay for everything” finally pushed me over the edge of my rabbid “I need to play” and completionist tendency. It was the last straw.

    I’m gland I left because it’s when shit started e to hit the fan:

    • they started to make you pay for a lot of thing that was previously included in the expansions (dungeons, raid,…).
    • They started to fire their (highly talented) staff en masse.
    • FOMO was getting out of control indeed.
    • You could feel the greed out of most of the decisions.
    • Vaulting content (why???)

    Shame because

    • it was of the best shooting/power gameplay out there. The art and design was incredibly.
    • The lore was deepd and with a lot of “hidden” link darksoul style (even if it’d be easy to argue it was just obscure and writer had no idea what they were doing)
    • The sci/fantasy mix was working very well and for me is still unique so far.

    I might give it a go again, but it’ll not be the same without my old clan.