Looking for both logical and emotional reinforcements, from casual acquaintances to intimate partners, and any orientation if not especially, everyone matters.
Frame it as a “friend” if you’d like, but I would like to know what made an impactful impression on you personally, above and beyond any hypothetical.
Highlight the good. Usually one part sticks out, thighs biceps and say dam you do X?
Then have em share what sports if any and make em try stuff. Make them stand on a skateboard or do stuff that makes em feel like a kid. A fat person can jump rope and sometimes we forget that.