Not are you ready to die. Are you emotionally prepared to die?

  • AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    One of the reasons my panic attacks never last long is that I feel like I’m dying and once I think “hey wait why am I freaking out? I don’t care if I die and if I do I’d rather not die feeling so stressed” usually my body calms down very fast.

    Same thing with a time when I almost drowned. I realized I’d rather just let go, so I stopped flailing about and let myself start sinking. Then it’s like “okay this is taking longer than expected to die, I could probably push myself up to take a breath or maybe even swim to shallow water before I die”

    Accepting death is a great way to calm yourself down in stressful situations and calming yourself down is helpful in most stressful situations lol