• pebbles@sh.itjust.works
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    24 hours ago

    Yeah that’s frustrating. I think some world views are just too ingrained. Like some phrase or idea is just so true that it’s considered an axiom rather than a conclusion.

    I’ve learned I’m in quite the minority believing that folks don’t have as much control over their beliefs as we think they do. Or especially the application of that idea. I don’t think it is someone’s fault that they are racist. And I don’t think they need to have magically realized how important it is to try and be informed. Who (that they’d listen to) is going to tell them to do that? Their conservative parent’s? Their conservative friends? The conservatives they listen to online?

    It’s a tough nut to crack. I think folks get frustrated with it and want to blame someone for things not working.

    I do want to say that I see all that frustration and anger is very very very valid. People are getting harmed by these beliefs. I’m also sorry that trying to educate folks has been so tough in your case.

    I think part of the frustration is that we’ve convinced ourselves that humans run on logic. I blame the Romans. I’m probably wrong on placing that blame.

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      10 hours ago

      May we all find the empathy you’re extending. It’s truly a daily struggle. Regardless, blaming the Romans is always a good move, so I’m on board there. Down with the Romans!

      Best of luck with it all. Keep fighting the good fight.

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        9 hours ago

        Thanks for the encouragement. I usually get push back on these ideas, so it really gives me motivation hearing you say all that.