I think the age bubble thing is real, but it’s got more to do with life stages. I’m in my mid 30s, and a little while ago I was hanging out at a bar and met some people that were 22-24. However, they all had jobs out of high school, and I had an easier time talking to them than a 26 year old grad student I ran into a few months back.
I’ve always been told I look very young for my age (to the point where 24 year olds commonly talk to me like I’m younger than them) so your mileage may vary. Edit: I guess working 24 year olds. A few years back, I was doing a contract in a, I guess, working man’s town. I remember I met a dude and a girl at the bar, and the girl asked me to guess her age. My honest guess was 50, so I said 36. She was like “wow, I’m 37, good guess” and the guy was like "heh, once you get to my age, you’ll know to always underestimate. I asked him how old he was. He said 24. He looked older than me. I was 32. Welding and trades really fuck you up.
Its also how I look at age gap relationships. Like, a college freshman and a college senior might be three years apart, but the weird dudes I remember from the dorms were freshmen dating high school seniors…they might be less than six months apart in age, but they’re in different stages of life.
And of course, I look around at the old people bar I’m literally sitting in right now, and I see a bunch of 50/70 type couples, which is perfectly reasonable.
I think the age bubble thing is real, but it’s got more to do with life stages. I’m in my mid 30s, and a little while ago I was hanging out at a bar and met some people that were 22-24. However, they all had jobs out of high school, and I had an easier time talking to them than a 26 year old grad student I ran into a few months back.
I’ve always been told I look very young for my age (to the point where 24 year olds commonly talk to me like I’m younger than them) so your mileage may vary. Edit: I guess working 24 year olds. A few years back, I was doing a contract in a, I guess, working man’s town. I remember I met a dude and a girl at the bar, and the girl asked me to guess her age. My honest guess was 50, so I said 36. She was like “wow, I’m 37, good guess” and the guy was like "heh, once you get to my age, you’ll know to always underestimate. I asked him how old he was. He said 24. He looked older than me. I was 32. Welding and trades really fuck you up.
I think you might be onto something there. I like it.
Its also how I look at age gap relationships. Like, a college freshman and a college senior might be three years apart, but the weird dudes I remember from the dorms were freshmen dating high school seniors…they might be less than six months apart in age, but they’re in different stages of life.
And of course, I look around at the old people bar I’m literally sitting in right now, and I see a bunch of 50/70 type couples, which is perfectly reasonable.