Cuz the comments throught Lemmy/Piefed seems to indicate that literally every user on here is a FOSS/Dencentralization Purist and has 100% abandoned mainstream platforms.

I wonder if this is actually true or just a small minority of users being overrepresented.

  • mrmaplebar@fedia.io
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    12
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    7 days ago

    Only YouTube.

    I was pretty addicted to Reddit for a while, but eventually I got banned for basically no reason and that was enough to get me to almost entirely stop checking it.

    • qevlarr@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      6
      ·
      7 days ago

      I don’t think YouTube counts as social media. Also, you can disable ads, comments and shorts, it feels so much better

      • vaionko@sopuli.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        7 days ago

        social media

        noun

        Interactive forms of media that allow users to interact with and publish to each other, generally by means of the Internet.

        I think it counts

        • AskewLord@piefed.social
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          6 days ago

          unless you’re actively posting and commenting and interacting on youtube, you aren’t though.

          some of us just watch videos. I never had an account either until I was forced to get one due to them blocking so many vids from being viewed without signing in.

          just like i sometimes read twitter comments, but i don’t have a twitter account and i don’t interact it, they just sometimes come up as links in stories i’m reading. same with tiktok or IG videos/images. I see it mostly through other websites that are using them as sources.

          that’s very different than most people who are using it to as a means of socialization. I don’t even regard reddit/lemmy or internet comments as socialization. some people do. i have never have a ‘reddit friend’ even though I used teh site for over a decade. to me it was just shit on the internet that was fun to comment about.

      • Mesa@programming.dev
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        arrow-down
        2
        ·
        7 days ago

        Why would YouTube not count as social media?

        Pre-rebuttal in case you go in this direction: Being a social media platform and being a video sharing platform are not mutually exclusive.

        • FosterMolasses@leminal.space
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          5 days ago

          Another even simpler point I haven’t seen anyone else mention yet is that social media is historically associated with being used to socially interact with friends and family, either people you know irl or closely-knit online groups you treat as legitimate personal relationships.

          Though I suppose Twitter can be an exception to this, but anyone who remembers how Twitter started out knows that it was never intended to be that way lol (now that government and judicial agencies use it as a defacto form of official press release ontop of everything else)

        • FosterMolasses@leminal.space
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          5 days ago

          If the question is “why not”, I think a good reasoning is simply because it broadens the categorization to the point where the term begins to lose all meaning. Different websites inherently have different forms of structure for interaction.

          The way you behave on Instagram, Facebook, tumblr, and Twitter all feel fundamentally different from the way you behave on forums and video sites. People on Lemmy don’t “reblog” stuff, people don’t send each other friend requests on Youtube. It redefines the core dynamic.

          On Youtube, the dominating theme is channels and parasocial relationships, more similar (but not exactly the same) to an audience’s relationship with traditional media like Film and Television and their responses to the various actors/artists/celebrities therein rather than a 1:1 reciprocal relationship. Sure, there are fan groups, which gets into an interesting subset where you can begin to socially interact with each other, but these groups often live in outside spaces (such as tumblr). Hence the point I’m trying to make.

          Even classifying Lemmy and Reddit as “social medias” feels like a stretch. I mean yes, in a technical sense we’re all “socializing” with each other in this moment and having (mostly) genuine conversations. But for the vast majority of it, I would say:

        • qevlarr@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          5
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          7 days ago

          It’s just TV, there’s nothing social about it for many people

          Like Netflix with a different library

            • FosterMolasses@leminal.space
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              1
              ·
              5 days ago

              Tiktok is the definition of social media imo. You respond directly to each other with videos that reveal who you are in real life. It’s almost aggressively social lol, like neighbors yelling at each other inside of the same apartment building, even if you live on opposite ends of the continent.

            • AskewLord@piefed.social
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              6 days ago

              yeah because it’s mostly talking heads and the tik tok videos are meant to be replied to by other videos.

              a lot of youtube isn’t like that. it’s just videos.

              do some people use youtube as a social platform? yes. like the massive genre of talking heads and ‘reaction’ videos.

              • PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                4 days ago

                I don’t think many people use tiktok like that. Most people are just commenting, or lurking. It’s functionally pretty similar to how YouTube is used for the average person.

              • FosterMolasses@leminal.space
                link
                fedilink
                English
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                5 days ago

                I remember there was actually a time (probably way back in the late 2000s) where youtube used to have a little “video reply” feature, and they would nest the replies beneath the video in a little banner! I miss those days…